Decisions determine destiny…
Every decision we make impacts our life to the point of changing it completely. From smaller and silly things, to situations that make us feel nervous and anxious. Sometimes, we are in a maze full of demons that don’t let us find the way to go out. In the end, those demons are our creation of insecurities. We have allowed them to enter our lives and make decisions for us.
Don’t you think that we think to much? or, maybe, are we allowing others to make decisions for us? or, why do we have to be so annoying with ourselves?. Actually, I don’t know if you see it, but behind it, it is the indecision that comes from the approval of a second person. Stop looking others approval for everything, be confident and make your own decisions.
To tell the truth, When my husband proposed me to get married, I had to make the biggest decision of my life “to leave Colombia and move to Switzerland”. You can not imagine how difficult it was to make the decision to leave my family, my companies, my best friends, my cats, my comfort zones and all the people around me, without thinking about what others say…
…and had said, like: “You’re going to leave everything for a man?” “why women are so silly?” “what if he hits you? You never know” “you have everything here, for what are you going there?”, plus horror, terror, and more horror stories LOL.
I choose myself as a priority and i made the decision
I got contact with my emotions and feelings, I got empowered, i made the decision to move on and live my life doing whatever makes me happy. …giving me the opportunity to learn, to listen, to learn knowledge, to see the world different, to love, to have contact with people, to learn to leave my comfortable zone and face all my demons.
Now, it is my decision to feel different, unique, happy and calm, living each moment as if it is unique. It is my decision to live however I want and to reach my goals. And that decision was by taking action and having a different attitude of how I behave and move in this world.
The experience has not been easy, I do not care what people say or think. I do not regret it, I am happy and free, regardless of what they said. And this experience has given me the opportunity to live. Finally, decisions are the hardest to make, especially when its a choice between where you should be and where you really wanted to be.